Thursday, March 11, 2010

Guatemala Trip

Finally, I have a few minutes to post about our wonderful trip. It has been a hectic two weeks since we have been back. I haven't had time to sit for even a minute. But I finally got all the pictures downloaded and somewhat organized. So here goes the picture tour of our trip!

We arrived in Guatemala City late Saturday night. Sunday we went to church in a small ward building that was right next door to the temple. That was really special. The meeting was all in Spanish so our guide (David) kept some notes and let us know a summary of what the talks were. I was pretty close to the general meaning of things with the little Spanish I know. David (my David) was quite surprised that what I had told him matched closely to what David told us. (I can tell this is going to be completely confusing with both of the David's.)

That night we flew to Flores. We visited Mayan ruins there and saw some very beautiful sights. You can see the volcanoes that we flew over at sunset. David was going crazy in the plane when he saw this. He just loves this kind of stuff! The picture with the Guatemalan lady in it was at a place we bought some souvenirs. She was doing a lot of the making of things there.

Here are pictures of some of the ruins and Mayan temples that we visited. The history of these people fascinated me. David (our guide) did a very good job of tying in their culture with some of the Book of Mormon things we study. That for me was the best part of the trip, all of the classes and learning we got to do along with all the hiking and exploring.

The top row of pictures shows an underground hole that was found near the living structures. Even though the hole was only big enough for Mark (one of the guys with us) could crawl down into what was underneath was amazing. A large enough room to store food and things that needed to be refrigerated. It was their natural refrigerator. I thought how did animals stay out of their stuff but then decided not to worry about it and be grateful for my refrigerator at home!

This set of pictures shows the view from the tops of the temples we climbed. Two of the temples had wooden stairs along side them for us to climb. I think one of them had two hundred stairs. The temple in Lamanoi we could climb the face of still. That was scary coming down from. They say going up is all physical and coming down is all mental. They were not lying about that. Dave kept saying how glad he was not to be worrying about Noah running up and down the steps! I definitely do not think Chad would have even tried it. But I have to say the view from the top was some of the prettiest scenes of the whole trip so very worth the hike up and frightening climb down!

Here are some pictures of the local wildlife. I was overwhelmed at the beauty of the animals. All of these pictures except the Jaguar, parrot, and crocodile were out in the jungles that we hiked in. I have many more pictures of birds, and lizards and other creepy crawling things. We were always on the lookout for a crocodile. We traveled on several rivers and there was always a chance we would see one but no such luck. We went to the Belize Zoo and saw many more animals native to the area and a lot of them were very similar to the ones here in North America.

The sunsets were amazing! I loved watching the sun going down. It did seem to go down a lot earlier than we are used to. The one picture is the front of the very steep climb up the front of the temple in Lamanoi. Thank goodness for the rope to hold on to for the climb down. Not everyone used it, but I felt much better holding on to it.

We went to a Howler monkey reserve. The guide there had worked for over ten years with this little family of howler monkeys and called them down out of the trees for us. The one climbing on Dave's head ate a banana out of my hand. Dave has that on video. The two mamas had little babies on their backs. It is hard to see in the pictures. The one monkey with his back to us is the daddy of the group. They are very territorial so the howling is used to let predators know they are in their space. It sounds very scary - like huge. big lion roaring - but the biggest they get is about 22 lbs. So there bark is definitely bigger than their bite!

The last day we went snorkeling in the Kayes. We took a 23 mile boat ride from Belize City out to the Islands. The water was so beautiful and clear. We snorkeled with the sharks, stingrays, and a variety of beautiful fish! I loved it. I did get a sunburn on my shoulders, I did put lots of sunblock on but I guess not enough. Other than that everything was perfect.
We also went cave tubing and ziplinning. We enjoyed many good eating experiences. Local restaurants as well as the hotel cuisine. We shopped at a local grocery store and I have to say the most shocking thing was the price of ice cream. American the cheapest was $18.00 for a half gallon. The most expensive was around $35.00. At that price it would cure me of all my ice cream cravings! One of the first reats we bought ourselves back in the states was an ice cream at the airport. In the evenings we swam in the hotel pool, played ball in the pool, played card games, dice games and just enjoyed each others company. Every day was filled to the fullest with activities and fun. I am so grateful for the wonderful surprise that David and I got. One night for dessert a large chocolate cake came to our table with the words "Happy Anniversary David and Candice". Then we received the most beautiful bouquet of red roses and white daisy's. I hope all our friends know how much we appreciated that gesture and how special it made our trip. This was a once in a life time experience and I am so glad we decided to go!

Friday, February 19, 2010

Going on a trip!!!

Tomorrow David and I leave on our anniversary trip! (Yes, 30 years in June) I am so excited! Can you tell! I have been packed now for over a week. I have never packed early before. I usually pack as I am getting ready to go out the door. I know, not very organized and I usually forget something. But not this time. We are headed for Guatemala and Belize. We get to go with some pretty awesome people. Friends from church who are going to help make this trip incredible!

So today I doing all the last minute getting things in order and all the information to all the people helping out with the kiddos and I come home to find a cute little something from my secret sister! How fun was that! We have been doing this for Relief Society this month and I am so excited about the things I am doing for my secret sister and so excited about getting things from a secret sister. I love, love what she made. I will share after I get back from my trip! Did I mention yet I am going on a trip?

Tonight Autumn crawled into my bed very dirty from playing outside all afternoon in the warm winter/spring sun. I, of course, made her get out and take a bath. She almost fell asleep in the bath tub. It was cute. When she came in my room I was listening to the news getting ready to watch the Olympics and she said "I don't really like the news much, they talk a lot. I like it better when they just show pictures and don't do so much talking." She cracks me up. Then she said she did not want us to leave and that she planned on staying in my bed for the whole time I was gone and maybe even two more days after we got back. She said, "Your bed is just so cuddly and who would ever want to get out of it? So I think I will just stay here until you and dad get back." Again, I am cracking up!

So for the next little while I will be signed off the computer and enjoying the sights and sounds of a far off place. I am so excited! I will share pictures and stories of this incredible adventure we get to go on upon our return. So for tonight, I have to celebrate by having a bowl of Dreyer's chocolate brownie 1/2 the fat ice cream with the girls as a special treat! Who knows if there is ice cream where we are going? I'm going on a trip........can you tell I 'm excited?

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

The kitchen drawer

The front of one of my kitchen drawers came off this morning. Actually it was pulled off by Chad. It has been trying to break for quite some time and I knew it was not long when I opened the drawer this morning. I had specifically told Chad, "Be careful, this thing is going to break and I want dad to fix it". Well, I guess he didn't know his own strength because when the drawer would not open easily he pulled harder and the whole front came off. I was so mad! I had just told this kid to be careful and I felt he was not. So out the door he went to school with a lecture from me on the value of money and how much things cost and how he could at least have tried to be careful. He just rolled his sixteen year old eyes and acted not the least bit sorry and said that it was not his fault and I should not yell at him about it. (I always feel I am not yelling just talking loud:) This was not the way I wanted him to go out the door this morning. We have been trying for the month of February to be kind and say loving things to each other. It has been hard. The children seem to be not working as hard at it as I had hoped. I have been trying. This morning I just let it go. He was going to hear what I had to say and yet the more I talked the more he tuned me out. All morning I have been thinking of how I could have handled the situation differently. I know how I could have said what I wanted to say in a kinder way. I love this kid. He does try to be good and he does so much for me. The drawer is not worth me having ruined my morning over. I know Chad is not thinking of it anymore. That is the wonderful thing about being 16. Life is not about a kitchen drawer right now. His worries are much greater in his mind as he figures out life and school. I sometimes wish they could skip this part and just head right into their grownup life. So many mistakes could be avoided if they skipped this part. But that is not how it works. Mistakes are going to be made and lessons learned that can not be learned any other way. The broken drawer is not necessarily one of the lessons he has to learn. It is one for me this morning. One of patience and love that could have been said rather than the way I acted. I realize that all ages in our life are learning ages. I should have learned this one many years ago. Yet, I have to learn it again today. I love this little boy who really is not a little boy anymore. He really did not wake up this morning thinking, "I am going to break something today - I bet it would really be fun to break the kitchen drawer!" I know he woke up worrying about his classes and homework that needs to be finished and all the rest that goes with a day in high school. I know he loves me - despite my temporary loss of self control to not get angry over a silly drawer. This is going to be a better day for the lesson I learned this morning. I hope his day goes well with what he has to learn today. Sorry Chad, Love you!

Saturday, February 6, 2010

Saturday ramblings

I don't know why I have not posted in so long. I have been busy, but really nothing more than the normal busy. I have lots I could have been writing about. Trips to the coast, trips with friends, shopping with friends, funny things the kids have said and done, great FHE lessons that have been happening, things the kids have been doing in school, projects I have been working on, dates with David, some of the fun reading I have been doing, lessons I have been teaching at church (seminary and relief society), all my running and exercising. So it is not that there has not been things to write about. I have been in a little funk since November. It was not the holidays. They were great! It turned out to be a very happy holiday season. I traveled and saw extended family and the children were all together with us for Christmas. So I just don't know what it is.

I was sitting here reading "crafting" blogs and finishing off a small (very small) container of Ben & Jerry's chocolate fudge brownie ice cream when I thought I needed to write something today. But I don't know what is worth writing about. So while my life has been very full and busy these last few months my heart has been heavy with worry for Paige. That must be what I am supposed to be writing about right now.

She is in a bad way again and things just don't seem to be getting better for her. I know it is her choices. Maybe that is what the funk is all about. As a "mother who knows" when one of your little ones strays so far from all that they were taught it is hard not to have a heavy heart for them. I do all that I am supposed to and even a little more to make up for what I am lacking in some areas and yet I feel like I am spinning in circles when it comes to this one little baby girl of mine. My head knows all the right things to do and my heart even allows me to follow through with the consequences that have to be dished out and even though for this time how the situation is with her needs to be what it is; I still long for peace for her so I can have peace. I watch other families and moms as they cope with life with children and I think I am doing pretty good most of the time. But until things are at a good place with Paige I think I will have a small cloud over me. I can tell you though that I allow the sun to shine through that cloud or should I say "son". My faith is stronger than ever. My hope is greater than ever and my love for her is just as full as when she was first laid in my arms. I am able to do this because of that Son who went through all of this for me so I could lay it at his feet. I am not unique with the situation that I deal with but sometimes I do feel alone. So as I write this I know what the funk I am in is all about. I know how to fix it. I need to write about all the "busy" in my life more regularly so I can see all that is good. I need to not let so much time go by before I write or journal things. A good reason for keeping up on my blog. Even though I write in this format so that my family can be caught up on everything going on here at our home, I write so I can see what is good and joyous going on at our home. I can use these writings now whereas my children might use them later when they have their families. What a wise Heavenly Father for having the prophets teach about keeping journals. I have been studying about the women in the scriptures and realize that their struggles and heartaches parallel mine. What I am learning is so wonderful yet I am sure if another women read the same thing she would learn for herself a different lesson. I am glad we have their writings to learn from.

I have a relief society project to work on this afternoon so I should be getting to it. I feel the darkness of the cloud lifting even though the cloud will still hang over. Life is good! I am so glad I have eleven wonderful children to teach me how to be an eternal mother. Even though the lessons are hard some times, they are so worth every moment I have to learn from them! That is how I see today "through a mother's eyes".

Thursday, January 28, 2010

Taylor and Hayden celebrate their birthdays


Happy Birthday to my two January girls! Hayden turned 9 on the 16th and Taylor turned 11 on the 26th. For Hayden we were at the coast so we celebrated there with a birthday breakfast. They came and sang happy birthday to her and gave her a balloon. She was so surprised. We went shopping and she picked out a complete outfit and then also bought some things from bath and body works. She claims that is her favorite store! It was a great day shopping with her. For Taylor we went to the movies and she waited until evening to open her gifts. We had our family party on Sunday and everyone came for dinner. It was fantastic! The children were all so happy and it was fun to get to talk to all of them and have cake and ice cream. My little girls are getting so grown-up. I am so excited for the year ahead and all the fun things they get to experience as a 9 and 11 year old! Love you girls, Happy Birthday!


Monday, January 25, 2010

Breakfast conversation with Autumn


David had an interesting conversation yesterday morning at breakfast with this little one.
Autumn: "Dad, why aren't you a millionaire? Dad, how can you become a millionaire?"
David: "Well, Autumn, I would have to be smarter, work harder and be gone all the time. In fact, you kids would never see me."
Without missing a beat -
Autumn: "That's OK dad, we have pictures of you!"
David did all he could do to keep from choking on his cereal. After a few minutes he asked her,
David: "If I was never home how would I get the money to all of you?"
Again, without missing a beat -
Autumn: "We have mail!
I just started laughing when I heard this conversation. How does a six year old be so witty and make everything seem so simple?

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

I learned a new word...

I learned a new word today.

ameliorate: verb, to make or become better, more bearable, or more satisfactory;improve.

I have been thinking a lot about my word for the year. I have had it on my mind for a couple of months and thought I knew what I wanted it to be this year. I have also been thinking about goals and setting some new ones. But today as I was cleaning and putting Christmas away I really did not want to make new goals or resolutions.

President Brigham Young said that the Lord “gives a little to his humble followers today, and if they improve upon it, tomorrow he will give them a little more, and the next day a little more. He does not add to that which they do not improve upon” (Discourses of Brigham Young, sel. John A. Widtsoe [1941], 90)

I just love that quote! My thoughts of the past couple of months of my new word have gone right out the window. I will save that one for another time. What I want to do this year is IMPROVE or AMELIORATE! I want the Lord to add to what I have. How can I ask for more when I have not done what I have been asked to do in the first place? Interesting how my prayer of late has been "to please show me how to follow Him better" and this word comes into my life today- ameliorate. I find this quote today. I understand more today. I think in my study today I IMPROVED a little more by keeping His thoughts in my thoughts.

So this year no list of new goals, no New Year's resolutions that go by the wayside in a few weeks anyway, no new added things to my list that is already so long that there is no way I could ever get anything new done. I am going to IMPROVE on what I already have, IMPROVE on what I already know, IMPROVE on my studies, prayers, church worship, temple attendance, and being a good friend, wife and mother!
If you have not guessed by now my word for the year -IMPROVE (ameliorate)